It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves

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About me

Usually, biography comes down to a set of limited events: birth, education, marriage, children, grandchildren. Or: birth, education, career, retirement. But in both cases, a rich life is hidden behind these meager facts. The concept of a vibrant and abundant life is subjective. Each person has their own unique life, with their own goals, aspirations, expectations and emotional experiences. Moreover, at different periods of life, we change a lot. Our goals are different as well as the intensity of our emotions can vary a lot. Acquiring our invaluable, unique life experience, our understanding of ourselves and the world changes. It is important to understand that at 50 you will no longer be able to correct the mistakes of your 20-year-old self or alter your past actions and thoughts. You yourself choose the best solution at any given time. So instead of useless regret, you can rely on your experience and accept yourself at any age.

A very short biography

I was born in Kharkiv (Ukraine). Graduated from school #4. Then finished Kharkiv State University, Mechanics and Mathematics University with a degree in Applied Mathematics. Knowing that my husband would be drafted into the army, and that, of course, I would follow him along, I wrote the word “anywhere” under the my desired work assignment and ended up as an engineer at the Khimavtomatika factory near Kharkiv. This was the only time I worked at a restricted access facility in my life. I worked there for almost a year and soon realized that the regular hours work is not for me. So I decided that I'd rather work more hours, but manage my own schedule.After a 1.5 years in the army, I worked for 1.5 years at school #9 in Kharkiv. After that I moved to the Kharkiv National University and stayed there for the rest of my career. Departments changed names ("Mathematical Modeling", "Higher Mathematics", "Department of Theoretical and Applied Informatics"). The name of the school changed (now it is the Faculty of Mathematics and Informatics). Even the name of the university changed — it is now called V.N. Karazin Kharkiv National University. Deans and heads of departments changed. But the essence, the spirit of the university remained the same. At some point during perestroika, I defended my dissertation and became Associate Professor. Even now, after 35 years, I work there, although remotely at the moment.I moved to Munich one year ago. I work with young children (I teach logic) at the "Gorod cultural and educational center".I have two wonderful children — a son and a daughter. And two equally wonderful granddaughters. I am a happy mother. My children succeeded both professionally and personally.I have a lot of relatives that are close to me not only in blood, but also in spirit.And while there are aspirations it is too early to put an end to it.